Did you see ep. 8, by any chance? I don't want to spoil you unduly if you haven't, but the gist of it is, she and some other commanding officers gave Sousuke an order that they knew would rip him apart. He followed it, although obviously he was obviously agonized by it, and when he went reported to her afterwards, she actually screamed at him for being upset over it. He didn't yell at her or even complain or do anything inappropriate; he was just visibly tense and unhappy--and she screamed and cried at him that he was selfish and unprofessional and didn't care about her or his teammates because he wants to protect Kaname--all while he just stood there, being shocked. Not only is she the last person on Earth I'd ever want to see him in a romance with, she is not fit to command. HATRED.